How did you meet your significant other? Answer all the questions HONESTLY and re post as "How I met _____"
1.Where did you meet?We met on a internet dating site.
2.What was the first thought that went through your head when you met? We talked for weeks before we met in person. I thought he was hot!
3.Do you remember what he/she was wearing?Yes! Jeans & a Yellow polo shirt
4.Where was the first time you kissed this person?Was when I met him for the first time. :)
5.Where did you go for your first date?We went out to dinner at the outback. Yum and saw the movie Van Helsing
6.How long did you know this person before you became a couple?a couple months.
7.How did he/she ask you out?Well he asked me out just after his bday and it just progressed from there
8.Has this person ever proposed to you?yes! April 28, 2005. Its was my bday!
9.Do you and this person have kids together?Yes! Braelyn (18months) Tatem (2 months)
10.Have you ever broken the law with this person? Ummm I dont believe so...
11.When was the first time you realized that you liked this person?while I was getting to know him. When you met someone on the internet you get nervous so I asked all sorts of questions.
12.Do you get along with his/her family?yep!!
13.Do you trust this person?of course!!
4.Do you see her/him as your partner in your future?everyday:)
15.What is the best gift she/he gave you?love. aww. :) Also a trip home to see my family. I was getting very homesick for my dad. He bought the tickets and took me home!
16.What is one thing He/She does that gets on your nerves? He has no patience and that drives me crazy, and that he is never wrong!! Men.. LOL
17.Where do you see each other 15 years from now?Hmmm together I hope with our kids!
18.What causes the most arguments?Right now.. it would be me working and him being home with the kids and not being able to "get things done" he says
19.How long have you been together?Since June 5, 2004
20.Are you Married?yup!
21. Who Do you Tag?Hmmm I guess anyone who would like to do this.. LOL
Tuesday, November 18, 2008
Monday, November 17, 2008
Just suck it up.. You are their dad!
So I went back to work a couple weeks ago.. I work only 2 nights a week. So dustin is home with the kids. Well I guess Saturday night didn't go as "he" wanted. I came home about 12pm. He was sitting at the computer, my house a mess, and Tatem screaming his head off. I immeditatly picked him up and rocked him. When I look up here is my husband staring at me like I just did something I wasnt suppose to.
He told me that Bree wouldnt go to bed when it was time, that she wouldnt eat what he made her for dinner, and that she was alittle outta control. That Tate hadnt stopped crying and wont go to sleep. He wont take his bottle so he just gave up.
Ummm you gave up? So nice that the hubs can give up but the mother cant. He proceeded to tell me that it wasnt worth me working. We shall see how this paycheck is and we will decide from there if I should work.. ummm excuse me?!? WTH?!?
I understand that he had a stressful night, but what about me when I have a stressful day and would like some time to myself you dont see me giving up. Just makes me mad that all of a sudden he wants to make these choices without me, umm it is MY job. I'M the one working the hours. I AM the ONE who is working, taking care of the kids, and the house. You would think that HE would ask ME how I felt about it.
So sunday he comes home and askes me what I am going to do about my schedule this week. Didnt know there was a problem with it, but ok I continue to listen. I work saturday nights and the sunday morning. So I am missing church for the 3 week and he is upset. He tells me to tell my boss that I will be late saturday night so I can go to church. Umm I really cant do that. I can lose my job. When I took this postition I was told its mostly nights. And they are working with me right now about working only 2 bc with the holidays ppl are busy and dont really wanna watch 2 kids. So i cant very well tell them that its only one night. He gets alittle mad and says to me.. well saturday is my only night to have off (he works nights mostly) and I would like to go and do something or relax.. umm Hello when do i get to relax? So I just sit there boiling mad! I just couldnt take it anymore.
He makes me feel so little about my job. Yes he is the bread winner in the house, but I am making money and bringing it in too. You would think he would be happy that we have great jobs that are bringing in money to let us live a life that we want. Why do I feel this way.. just makes me so mad. Ugh Men.. thats my rant for the day. Had to get it out before I went off the deep end. He almost had me in tears last nite.. do they just not get it?
He told me that Bree wouldnt go to bed when it was time, that she wouldnt eat what he made her for dinner, and that she was alittle outta control. That Tate hadnt stopped crying and wont go to sleep. He wont take his bottle so he just gave up.
Ummm you gave up? So nice that the hubs can give up but the mother cant. He proceeded to tell me that it wasnt worth me working. We shall see how this paycheck is and we will decide from there if I should work.. ummm excuse me?!? WTH?!?
I understand that he had a stressful night, but what about me when I have a stressful day and would like some time to myself you dont see me giving up. Just makes me mad that all of a sudden he wants to make these choices without me, umm it is MY job. I'M the one working the hours. I AM the ONE who is working, taking care of the kids, and the house. You would think that HE would ask ME how I felt about it.
So sunday he comes home and askes me what I am going to do about my schedule this week. Didnt know there was a problem with it, but ok I continue to listen. I work saturday nights and the sunday morning. So I am missing church for the 3 week and he is upset. He tells me to tell my boss that I will be late saturday night so I can go to church. Umm I really cant do that. I can lose my job. When I took this postition I was told its mostly nights. And they are working with me right now about working only 2 bc with the holidays ppl are busy and dont really wanna watch 2 kids. So i cant very well tell them that its only one night. He gets alittle mad and says to me.. well saturday is my only night to have off (he works nights mostly) and I would like to go and do something or relax.. umm Hello when do i get to relax? So I just sit there boiling mad! I just couldnt take it anymore.
He makes me feel so little about my job. Yes he is the bread winner in the house, but I am making money and bringing it in too. You would think he would be happy that we have great jobs that are bringing in money to let us live a life that we want. Why do I feel this way.. just makes me so mad. Ugh Men.. thats my rant for the day. Had to get it out before I went off the deep end. He almost had me in tears last nite.. do they just not get it?
Tuesday, November 4, 2008
Baby Tag- Tatem
1. Where were you when you first found out you when you found out you were pregnant? In our bathroom
2. Who was with you? just me!
3. What was your first reaction? Not so surprised, I kinda knew I was.
4. What was your husband's reaction? shock!
5. Who was the first person you told? Hubby
6. Were the pregnancies planned? Not really, I should really track my periods better
7. Was everyone happy for you? Yes
8. What was the sex? boy!
9. Did anyone throw a shower for you? No, we had a BBQ when he was born
10. Did you get any outfits you wouldn't use? We have to start all over.. pink just wasnt his color
11. How much weight did you gain? 35 lbs i think
12. Did you get stretch marks? Oh yes!! He was not nice to me
13. Did you crave anything crazy? no, just crushed Ice
14. Who or what got on your nerves the most? my hormones, my work, and stupid ppl
15. Where were you when you went into labor? at the hospital.. was induced
16. Did you have any complications? High BP, pre term labor, swelling, contractions, placenta previa
17. Did your water break? the dr broke it
18. Who drove you to the hospital? Dustin
19. Did you go early or late? he wanted to come at 34 weeks, but we made it to 39!
20. Who was in the room? me dustin and the dr, maybe 2 nurses
21. Did you video tape it? no thank you
22. Did you have any pain medication? Nubain to help me sleep
23. Did you have a c-section or natural? natural
24. What was your reaction to the birth? WOW, that was fast!
25. How big was the baby? 8lbs 7oz 20 inches
26. Did your husband cry? yes he was a baby!
27. When is the next one coming? two is a very good number although we will prolly have another in 3 years or so
28. If you could would you do it all over again? OF COURSE
2. Who was with you? just me!
3. What was your first reaction? Not so surprised, I kinda knew I was.
4. What was your husband's reaction? shock!
5. Who was the first person you told? Hubby
6. Were the pregnancies planned? Not really, I should really track my periods better
7. Was everyone happy for you? Yes
8. What was the sex? boy!
9. Did anyone throw a shower for you? No, we had a BBQ when he was born
10. Did you get any outfits you wouldn't use? We have to start all over.. pink just wasnt his color
11. How much weight did you gain? 35 lbs i think
12. Did you get stretch marks? Oh yes!! He was not nice to me
13. Did you crave anything crazy? no, just crushed Ice
14. Who or what got on your nerves the most? my hormones, my work, and stupid ppl
15. Where were you when you went into labor? at the hospital.. was induced
16. Did you have any complications? High BP, pre term labor, swelling, contractions, placenta previa
17. Did your water break? the dr broke it
18. Who drove you to the hospital? Dustin
19. Did you go early or late? he wanted to come at 34 weeks, but we made it to 39!
20. Who was in the room? me dustin and the dr, maybe 2 nurses
21. Did you video tape it? no thank you
22. Did you have any pain medication? Nubain to help me sleep
23. Did you have a c-section or natural? natural
24. What was your reaction to the birth? WOW, that was fast!
25. How big was the baby? 8lbs 7oz 20 inches
26. Did your husband cry? yes he was a baby!
27. When is the next one coming? two is a very good number although we will prolly have another in 3 years or so
28. If you could would you do it all over again? OF COURSE
Sunday, November 2, 2008
Baby Tag- Braelyn
1. Where were you when you first found out you when you found out you were pregnant? In our bathroom
2. Who was with you? just me!
3. What was your first reaction? surprised!
4. What was your husband's reaction? shock!
5. Who was the first person you told? Dustin on his lunch break! I had to wait 3 hours!
6. Were the pregnancies planned? We were trying
7. Was everyone happy for you? Yes
8. What was the sex? girl!
9. Did anyone throw a shower for you? yes, my mommy, MIL and SILS
10. Did you get any outfits you wouldn't use? There were some that she never wore, cuz i didnt care for them and couldnt take them back..
11. How much weight did you gain? 20 lbs i think
12. Did you get stretch marks? Just alittle
13. Did you crave anything crazy? no, just crushed Ice
14. Who or what got on your nerves the most? my hormones
15. Where were you when you went into labor? at the hospital.. was induced
16. Did you have any complications? nope she just took forever!
17. Did your water break? the dr broke it
18. Who drove you to the hospital? Dustin
19. Did you go early or late? 2 weeks late
20. Who was in the room? me dustin and the dr, maybe 2 nurses
21. Did you video tape it? no thank you
22. Did you have any pain medication? just a shot of some crap that made me sleepy!
23. Did you have a c-section or natural? natural
24. What was your reaction to the birth? WOW
25. How big was the baby? 8lbs 6 oz , 20.25
26. Did your husband cry? i dunno... i was so tired and loopy
27. When is the next one coming? The next one was a surprise 6 months later!
28. If you could would you do it all over again? OF COURSE!
2. Who was with you? just me!
3. What was your first reaction? surprised!
4. What was your husband's reaction? shock!
5. Who was the first person you told? Dustin on his lunch break! I had to wait 3 hours!
6. Were the pregnancies planned? We were trying
7. Was everyone happy for you? Yes
8. What was the sex? girl!
9. Did anyone throw a shower for you? yes, my mommy, MIL and SILS
10. Did you get any outfits you wouldn't use? There were some that she never wore, cuz i didnt care for them and couldnt take them back..
11. How much weight did you gain? 20 lbs i think
12. Did you get stretch marks? Just alittle
13. Did you crave anything crazy? no, just crushed Ice
14. Who or what got on your nerves the most? my hormones
15. Where were you when you went into labor? at the hospital.. was induced
16. Did you have any complications? nope she just took forever!
17. Did your water break? the dr broke it
18. Who drove you to the hospital? Dustin
19. Did you go early or late? 2 weeks late
20. Who was in the room? me dustin and the dr, maybe 2 nurses
21. Did you video tape it? no thank you
22. Did you have any pain medication? just a shot of some crap that made me sleepy!
23. Did you have a c-section or natural? natural
24. What was your reaction to the birth? WOW
25. How big was the baby? 8lbs 6 oz , 20.25
26. Did your husband cry? i dunno... i was so tired and loopy
27. When is the next one coming? The next one was a surprise 6 months later!
28. If you could would you do it all over again? OF COURSE!
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